Dating Advice for Men That Works

January 23rd, 2010 | by admin |

I have been utterly useless with women in the past. Having spent many years of my youthful life failing with women, I decided to make a change. Now after years of learning, trial and error, reading books, and development I have become successful in becoming attractive with women and dating. In fact I even coach men one on one in the “field” like the real life version of Hitch.

What follows is dating advice that works:

Dating Advice 1:

The first 3-4 dates are very important. Dating is like a game. If you play it right, you should have been able to escalate to kissing and more. You see within this time frame, the girl decides whether or not you’re worth it. If you have not escalated during these dates, you will very likely get into the LJBF (Lets Just Be Friends) category and getting out of this my friends is near to impossible.

Dating Advice 2:

Make the dates interesting. Avoid the usual dating scenes like cinemas, clubs and bars. Be unpredictable. Go for ACTION dates – these are dates with a lot of activity. The key word here is VENUE CHANGE. There are reasons for this. You see when we change scenes during a date; subconsciously we feel we have spent a lot more time with the other person, hence building familiarity and comfort. This also has the benefit of making it more interesting.

Dating Advice 3:

For crying out load, STOP with the gifts such as flowers and chocolates. Why? You have only known each other briefly, and doing things like that comes off as APPROVAL SEEKING, and suspicious. You could do these things after you’re in the relationship, and want to show your appreciation, but too early, and you will KILL the attraction.

Dating Advice 4:

Not knowing you are the MAN and she is the WOMAN. As the man you will take the lead. Being the leader has many attractive qualities. Back in tribal times, the leader takes the choice of all the females. This has not changed and still in our subconscious programming. These days’ women are still looking for those qualities in a man. So how do you take the lead? Decide where you are going in advance, and take the lead in decisions.

Dating advice 5:

When a woman dates a man she is thinking “he seems nice, let’s find out more about each other”. Too many guys view a woman they are dating as their potential WIFE. As you can imagine this puts a lot of pressure on the guy. They become frigid and cannot BE THEMSELVES. My advice is DON’T DO IT. Have the same view as the woman. You are screening her to see if she is worth it. So relax, be laid back and enjoy yourself.

Dating Advice 6:

STOP with the needy COMPLIMENTS.

“Oh, you’re so beautiful today”

“Wow so gorgeous”

These kinds of compliments send shivers down a woman SPINE people. You are there to find out more about each other and have fun. Dating her just because she is beautiful lowers your standards and intelligent women consider it an insult. They think you are shallow! DON’T DO THAT. If you want to give a compliment, give something sincere and genuine. Always include a reason for doing so. For example, “I like your top; it goes very well with the colour of your dress”.

I could go on and on about things to do and not to do when dating women. I have only touched on some of the issues…

Leo Tat
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  1. 10 Responses to “Dating Advice for Men That Works”

  2. By Sarge on Jan 23, 2010 | Reply

    Dating Advice?
    I’m 24 years old and I haven’t been on a date in over 5 yeras. I’m a physically fit cop with a master’s degree, but for some reason girls won’t give me the time of day. I don’t like going to clubs/bars and dating at work is always a bad idea especiallly in my line of work. I’m at a loss at where to find a nice down to earth girl. I consider myself a quiet, intelligent, and adventurous perosn. I don’t have any family or close friends in the state(CO) to "hook" me up because I just moved here after being in Air Force for six years. Any advice would help?

  3. By Mr. Mike on Jan 23, 2010 | Reply

    Talk to people. Find some one you find acctractive and keep in touch with them. Something will happen. Try a dating service. and talk to people like you. That shoudl work out.

    Good luck
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  4. By curlyhurlymo on Jan 23, 2010 | Reply

    goto laundomats, supermarkets, sunday affairs, and do the speed dating round and if all else fails, just chat up the cute girl that sells dresses at the local shopping centre.
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  5. By topguntony on Jan 23, 2010 | Reply

    http://www.plentyoffish.com try there
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  6. By Ed P on Jan 23, 2010 | Reply

    It’s hard to believe that from 19 to 24 you haven’t had a date. In your case I might recommend trying some of the Internet dating sites. It will broaden the potential source of dates and give you a chance to flirt and converse on-line before actually going out.
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  7. By ex dirty stripper on Jan 23, 2010 | Reply

    Go to church. Seriously. There are some good women there. I still love a cop (ex-military also). it does things to you. You see nothing but bad in people. Counseling will help but you will never change. Look up PTSD…you need a woman with low expectations and a good heart. Church, Brother.

    Good Luck and happy New Year
    It makes me almost cry to see that in a man so young.
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  8. By myangelbarry on Jan 23, 2010 | Reply

    it seems like you are running a personal ad. try the online websites and try your luck. just watch out for the psychos, fruitcakes and people who are what the seem. If you want to speak to me, you can e-mail me at love.my.kids@hotmail.com. good luck finding that special somebody.
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  9. By Jessica S on Jan 23, 2010 | Reply

    I think if you really see someone you like try to talk to them as a friend first. Don’t rush nothing. Then after you see what they like they might change for you.
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  10. By stephie_petz on Jan 23, 2010 | Reply

    Well my advice to you is try harder and be your self, all that is nice but some girls wont care what you did in the past they want to know what your going to do in the future.. The best place to meet a nice down to earth lady would mabie be a dog park why not …
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  11. By kiarra s on Jan 23, 2010 | Reply

    You are intelligent and intelligent people usually read. Your first stop is to look for women in bookstores. Or you can join a book club and get aqauinted with a special lady. Look in church, they always seem to have decent women. Adventurous? The park or like a biking club! Check around for women that are cops too, that way the two of you will share a common interest. If you match the type of character to the right location, then you’lll find the right girl. Do a character check-up on yourself. Is there anything you want to emphasize, down play, or delete? Make a list of characteristics of the type of woman you want, like a map and that will make your search easier. Praying helps much too. Don’t worry, there are lots of women who would be attracted to you, you just have to pull the diamond out of cubic zirconium (or is it zirconia?) Good luck!
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