Comments on: Dating Advice: Indecisive To Focused In 5 Steps

By: aqua_divaz

aqua_divaz — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:05:59 +0000

i wouldve just totally shut down when i hear tat he actually wants to split himself in two so that he can be with you and with the other woman at the same time. hmm…u guys are just dating or have u been a serious relationship for long? i mean, if ur just dating its not really wrong to be dating 2 people or more, major fighting while dating is a no no i guess cos if u cant put up ur best front whilst still dating god knows wat u have to endure further in the relationship…but if ur in a relationship and ur bf says that he wants to be with someone else too is just so wrong for me.personally i think yahoo answers are one of the good websites to go just to vent. no guarantees that it will solve ur problem but just to let it off your shoulders and have other people answer is liberating cos u know people out there are or have gone through wat u are going thru now =)
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By: rockinpunkin

rockinpunkin — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:03:59 +0000

Hmm…I don’t think I know of any except for Yahoo chat rooms which I’ve never tried but you can try it out (see below link).

To be honest, I think he’s playing you. He’s saying the right things so that you don’t move on, so that you still have "hope". If he’s going to fall in love with someone else (especially with trashy one stand), he’d leave you again if you ever got back together. I think you should go to the UK but not see him at all. Start brand new. Make new friends and date around.

Edited: just found another good place to vent, it’s a message board:
http://www.ivillage.com/messageboards/
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http://messenger.yahoo.com/features/chatrooms

By: Jason D

Jason D — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:01:59 +0000

you need to focus on you, you need to stop the feelings you have for this guy, he is a JERK!!! Let me tell you something get your education here not there, you will find a nice guy that will treat you how you deserve to be treated, Good LUCK!!1
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By: Marsha

Marsha — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 16:59:59 +0000

You just did! Better? There are other fish in the sea!
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By: apple dapples

apple dapples — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 11:57:09 +0000

Is there any place where I can vent about relationships?
Im currently in the throes of sadness. Recently, someone who I had a relationship with has found another person he is in love with. He still talks to me, and tells me he loves me as much as he loves her, but I am in the U.S, he is in the U.K. I accept that realization and we had talked about it before, but long story. I would have been okay except that he lied about seeing someone. I told him it would be okay to see someone else. I want him to be happy. As long as he just would tell me something was developing. And this is what happened. WE got in a fight, and we didn’t’ talk for a week. I finally get a hold of him, we argued some more and he told me he was gonna be his friends for a week. Then, we didn’t talk for 2 weeks, I got sad and worried and wrote him a letter, he replied that he was recently seeing someone. THen we talked, and I found out he wasn’t at his friend for the week. He had a one night stand and kept in contact with this girl, and when we got in a fight, i guess she convinced him to go visit her, and he did for 5 days, and fell in love with her. Funny thing it’s another Long distance relationship for him…Yeah that’s gonna work out lovely. Anyhow, I know I have to focus on myself instead of this mess. I’m taking steps, i’ve went on dates. But one just can’t stop ones feelings for someone, even if they fucked up badly. I know he cares about me, but he can’t wait. I understand that. I just wish it would not have happened this way.Because now I feel partially at fault. Another crazy twist and turn about this situation is, I am considering going to school in the U.K to get my Masters, because it’s super cheap, and I love to go back and start new friendships and a chapter of my life. and now…He’s kinda excited about the prospect and basically is confused about everything right now in his life. He says his selfish, and wishes to split himself in two so he can be with both people. Im bitter about his indecisive ways. And Im going to see him in March to get closure and go visit schools to see what master programs are out there. But anyhow. basically, I just wanna know if there are any chat rooms or relationship chat That I can go to, to vent and ask for advice to get over this or if any of you guys can help me with this. Maybe one day me and him will be friends, but not right now. I gotta emotionally vomit this out of my system.
He’s actually a good person. The circumstances are just quite difficult and he has admited he fucked up. I just need to vent and try and take steps towards getting over this. In all truth, I really still feel a lot for htis person. But it’s just how the circumstances are.