Comments on: Dating Advice Uk: Ready to Date & Find a Relationship?

By: martin

martin — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 10:32:59 +0000

the first time is not as enjoyable as in Hollywood movies. it is painful (for girls) and if you don't have any experience well you just don't know what to do with it IoI but it's all part of the learning process, if you thought you were ready but you weren't. well that happens to, i would say, almost every body. now you know how it is and got that off you head, and next time you're gonna be more careful when deciding to have sex again.
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By: Rachele W

Rachele W — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 10:30:59 +0000

just follow ur heart and tell him how u feel
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By: suicidal susan

suicidal susan — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 10:28:59 +0000

i felt the same way when i had my first time.i wasn't ready but he was. he's 3 yrs older than me. i told him i wasn't ready and although i loved him i told him i wanted to stay apart for a while. i knew he wanted that. and i couldn't give him. we were good friends. were both happy with the people we ended up with. so just talk to your bf about it.
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By: andreashatz

andreashatz — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 10:26:59 +0000

Did you enjoy it at least? Your body has been ready for quite some time now, so what you’re feeling is just psychological, and is pretty typical for girls (I’m saying girls because only girls fall for that "precious flower" crap, guys operate more physically, so girls wonder if he’s really the one while guys wonder when they’ll do it again).
All you need to do is talk to your bf about taking it slow. He’ll probably respect your decision. After all, he never had sex before you
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By: Denton

Denton — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 05:24:05 +0000

Having sex before I’m ready… and relationship advice… Should I keep dating him hoping?
I’m 18, and have a boyfriend for a month and a half. We’ve known each other for two years and he’s never been with anyone before. Since yesterday we were talking about sex, and we’ve had it tonight.

There was no pressure in having sex, but my stomach hurts, and I know I wasn’t ready now. He said he was. I believe him.

I’m planning on telling him I am not ready for that yet in our relationship. I don’t know if I’ll want to be with him long term. We get along, but sometimes I’ve found it hard to connect to him and have a normal conversation. I think I may be looking for someone who I can connect with on more levels than we do. I’ve always found myself in the position to not like the guy and break up because things get serious, like he has gotten with me…. already.

Am I crazy, or is this something most people go through? I need advice….
Yeah, It was enjoyable, but I’m more dealing with the fact that I want to get to really know who I’m with before having sex.