Dating & Relationship Advice: Help, Is My Man Cheating?
December 11th, 2009 | by admin |
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Shay Your Date Diva answers a Diva in distress who is unhappy with her man who wont commit and hangs out with other women.
Duration : 0:5:41
18 Responses to “Dating & Relationship Advice: Help, Is My Man Cheating?”
By mpenny226 on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
It’s all about self …
It’s all about self worth. How much do you value yourself? Why stay? You know that he is wrong. Run Forest Run!! Good Vid Shay. (for men and women)
By 76111 on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
Is your car a Lexus …
Is your car a Lexus Gx 470…u make good videos keep it up!!
By whatkindaboi on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
There is nothing …
There is nothing wrong with leaving once you RATIONALLY realize that this man or woman does not care enough about you to protect your heart & your feelings as they would their own… I have NO SHAME in saying I’ve left tons of women, not for another woman, but for the oppurtunity to find someone who was willing to match what I was willing to give, or ATLEAST TRY, lol… And when I left, I LEFT. No calls, no nothin, even if I had to hurt a long time over it…. Keep It Moving…
By whatkindaboi on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
This comes from a …
This comes from a man who loves one woman. LET HIM GO! Find someone that knows how to COMMUNICATE effectively & consistently. (notice I didnt say find a “baller”) This way, you can talk about ALL things concerning your relationship without threatening to leave each other. After that, treat him with deep respect and appreciation for being a good man. He will cherish you for being a good woman. If you find that he changes from what you thought you found, once again LEAVE HIM.
By WellDamn24 on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
Women never realize …
Women never realize how much relationships are a power struggle. If a man knows that he can disrespect you, he will not love you. If you don’t think enough of yourself to demand respect or walk away, then he’ll think you’re trash and treat you like trash. No man wants to claim the woman who will allow herself to be used and abused.
And being with a man who disrespects you isn’t love. THAT’S CALLED FEAR! You’re afraid to not have a man, so you put up with crap.
By hugandkissme33 on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
love ur words of …
love ur words of wisdom shay. love ur vblogs. i just love it.
By Amerieandmyguitar on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
I’m only a young 22 …
I’m only a young 22 but men have shown me a thing or two. I learned my biggest mistake was that I ever thought a person was mine in the 1st place.
By Amerieandmyguitar on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
With that …
With that considered, I think you may be giving some women too much credit. If she knew for sure, she wouldn’t contact you. For what? Part of the waking up process may be to acknowledge the technicalities behind the misconceptions of relationships…like believing someone owes you commitment because they’re YOUR man.
By lovein30days on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
Sweetie,
I can not …
Sweetie,
I can not give a woman a false sense of possession when she KNOWS in her heart that her man (or nonman) is not really into her and is out there uncommitted to her. The idea of my videos is to WAKE women up to reality they close their eyes to.
SYDD
By Amerieandmyguitar on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
I love you, but you …
I love you, but you kill me with the way you refer to men. For example: MY man, YOUR man/women. From the situation u discuss, obviously, the woman only THINKS she has a man and he is proving that he is just someone she’s dating. It may be easier to say, “my man” but it’s just not accurate and it gives women the false idea of possession which leads to heartache when reality hits!
By fee20luv on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
shay ur hair looks …
shay ur hair looks hella good. luv luv luv it.
By stacyju77 on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
love the hair!!!!
love the hair!!!!
By Attunahbrix on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
Loved this vid also …
Loved this vid also,
I try to just focus on the videos message, but it’s often so diffucult to ignore the ignorant comments on these pages (from women and Men).
But I do like your vids, keep ‘em comin’
By TheGoddessNetworks on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
I agree, he is not …
I agree, he is not just screwing a friend. WOmen have bought the lies of men way to long.
By AVTPro on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
that’s such a crock …
that’s such a crock. If you had sex with her…she’s not JUSTA friend. If you man got a bunch of women around him “He’s playing around”.
anyway, your hair looks great.
By PinotNoir1975 on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
yup
yup
By jamminc07g on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
why is your video …
why is your video is moving but your vehicle is not?
By NessieSweet on Dec 11, 2009 | Reply
That’s the truth.
That’s the truth.