Comments on: Dating & Relationship Advice: Help, Is My Man Cheating?

By: mpenny226

mpenny226 — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:48 +0000

It’s all about self …
It’s all about self worth. How much do you value yourself? Why stay? You know that he is wrong. Run Forest Run!! Good Vid Shay. (for men and women)

By: 76111

76111 — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:48 +0000

Is your car a Lexus …
Is your car a Lexus Gx 470…u make good videos keep it up!!

By: whatkindaboi

whatkindaboi — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:48 +0000

There is nothing …
There is nothing wrong with leaving once you RATIONALLY realize that this man or woman does not care enough about you to protect your heart & your feelings as they would their own… I have NO SHAME in saying I’ve left tons of women, not for another woman, but for the oppurtunity to find someone who was willing to match what I was willing to give, or ATLEAST TRY, lol… And when I left, I LEFT. No calls, no nothin, even if I had to hurt a long time over it…. Keep It Moving…

By: whatkindaboi

whatkindaboi — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:48 +0000

This comes from a …
This comes from a man who loves one woman. LET HIM GO! Find someone that knows how to COMMUNICATE effectively & consistently. (notice I didnt say find a “baller”) This way, you can talk about ALL things concerning your relationship without threatening to leave each other. After that, treat him with deep respect and appreciation for being a good man. He will cherish you for being a good woman. If you find that he changes from what you thought you found, once again LEAVE HIM.

By: WellDamn24

WellDamn24 — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:48 +0000

Women never realize …
Women never realize how much relationships are a power struggle. If a man knows that he can disrespect you, he will not love you. If you don’t think enough of yourself to demand respect or walk away, then he’ll think you’re trash and treat you like trash. No man wants to claim the woman who will allow herself to be used and abused.

And being with a man who disrespects you isn’t love. THAT’S CALLED FEAR! You’re afraid to not have a man, so you put up with crap.

By: hugandkissme33

hugandkissme33 — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:48 +0000

love ur words of …
love ur words of wisdom shay. love ur vblogs. i just love it.

By: Amerieandmyguitar

Amerieandmyguitar — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:48 +0000

I’m only a young 22 …
I’m only a young 22 but men have shown me a thing or two. I learned my biggest mistake was that I ever thought a person was mine in the 1st place.

By: Amerieandmyguitar

Amerieandmyguitar — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:48 +0000

With that …
With that considered, I think you may be giving some women too much credit. If she knew for sure, she wouldn’t contact you. For what? Part of the waking up process may be to acknowledge the technicalities behind the misconceptions of relationships…like believing someone owes you commitment because they’re YOUR man.

By: lovein30days

lovein30days — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:48 +0000

Sweetie,
I can not …
Sweetie,
I can not give a woman a false sense of possession when she KNOWS in her heart that her man (or nonman) is not really into her and is out there uncommitted to her. The idea of my videos is to WAKE women up to reality they close their eyes to.
SYDD

By: Amerieandmyguitar

Amerieandmyguitar — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:48 +0000

I love you, but you …
I love you, but you kill me with the way you refer to men. For example: MY man, YOUR man/women. From the situation u discuss, obviously, the woman only THINKS she has a man and he is proving that he is just someone she’s dating. It may be easier to say, “my man” but it’s just not accurate and it gives women the false idea of possession which leads to heartache when reality hits!