Getting More From Sex – Keeping your Sex Life Alive!
February 6th, 2010 | by admin |
There is nothing worse for a relationship than neglect, you need to keep your relationship fresh and passionate and this is what this article is all about.
A relationship is like a bank account. If you constantly make withdrawals and no deposits, the bank account will soon close for lack of funds.
So too, relying on a few plain old sexual positions will usually result in both partners of a relationship becoming bored, and eventually, the sexual (and love making) act, will appear bland and uninteresting.
It seems that each couple develops a kind of routine; and if the couple really cares about each other, they will have a place in this routine for “new and cool stuff”. This article is about that, and it can keep your Sexlife alive and exciting.
Consider a quick change from the bed in the bedroom is the chair in the living room. Believe it or not, having sex on a chair can be as varied as on the bed, gives the couple a whole new range of sensations, and can be fun as well.
There are few basic positions, and these have also their variants, and allows the couple to be very creative (giving a warm loving feeling as well).
Basic Position: Knelling on the Chair.
In the position you use a standard dining room chair, with high back. The girl kneels on the chair and faces the back of the chair holding on to start.
The man enters from the rear (a variant of the doggy-style pose) but with a lot of advantages. The guy can massage his partner, fondle her breasts, and stimulate her clitoris.
This allows for deep penetration, and slow and long trusting is advised. The girl can push back with her hands creating greater friction. This is a very sexy position, and almost always ends up in mutual orgasm.
Basic Position Two: Seeing “eye to eye”
For this position you use either the sofa for an arm chair. The man sits down normally and the woman then sits on the man’s lap, but her legs over each of the arms of the chair. The man easily enters, and this position the couple are really eye to eye.
The man now supports his partner at her waste, and helps her move up and down. This position allows for both maximum clitoral and G-spot stimulation and can end in a dramatic orgasm for the woman.
Second Position: The Jackknife
Here the couple are assumed to be more or less athletic. The woman rests her arms to the elbow on the chair seat, and holds on the back of the chair. The man then lifts her legs, and supports her, and the woman will wrap her legs around the man’s waist and back. The man enters her, and there is no trusting, only deep penetration.
This has minimal clitoral or G-spot stimulation, but it is a very unique feeling and often the couple reach an orgasm quickly, as the movements are very intimate.
Second Position: Across the Sea
Here the woman lays across the arm chair, and not sitting on it. She is in a prone position, using one arm for a pillow and the other arm supporting her pelvic area.
The man enters from the rear, and the woman then, if she wishes, can bring her legs together, giving the man an exquisite feeling.
This allows for clitoral friction and some G-spot stimulation as the man’s penis will tend to trust downward. It is a wonderfully personal position, and allows for much intimacy between the couple.
Keeping your Sexlife alive does require variety, so try the above.
Sacha Tarkovsky
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9 Responses to “Getting More From Sex – Keeping your Sex Life Alive!”
By zlosnica_13 on Feb 6, 2010 | Reply
Moms how do you keep your sex life alive?
I have a two year old and I am always so tired, and I have no sex drive, now we want to try for baby number two, how do I get in the mood? Are there any herbs that are safe? Or anything would be helpful, thanks.
By MR. Wybie aka Why born on Feb 6, 2010 | Reply
I got 3 and we have a fantastic sex life. Herbs i’m not sure about..but get a damn lock on the door and do it in the morning or before you go to bed. Definitely being tired will have an effect on your sex life so maybe try to get more sleep/go to bed earlier. Y ou know what helps too? Working out. It increased a girls and guys testtosterone, makes you more aggressive, really ups your sex drive so try that even if its a short 30 min work out. We pretty much do it whenever we get the chance.
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By slim on Feb 6, 2010 | Reply
Its called having a husband you care about and that excites you… sounds like the flame has gone out of the relationship..
My ex-wife got like you…. she’s an ex now…
maybe not herbs but how about a bottle of wine honey
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By gypsy g on Feb 6, 2010 | Reply
Poke it with a stick every once in a while…hahaha.
Its hard. I get in the mood for these fleeting moments, but they’re usually during some obscure moment when I couldn’t possibly stop and get my freak on.
For energy I’ve been taking B12 supplements and getting in a little 30 minute aerobic, with my step climber or a walk. I think its really helping. I don’t see that its really affected my sex drive, though. I miss my horny ole self. Guess its a good thing her father and I aren’t together together. I’d feel really bad. But then again, if he was around more to help out, I may not feel so drained all the time.
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By pandabear on Feb 6, 2010 | Reply
First let me say that my kids mean the world to me. When I was pregnant with my first, I recieved two peices of advice from an older co-worker. She said never let being "baby’s mommy" become your only identity and don’t forget about your relationship with your husband. I listened to her. I always made time for me and my husband. A mother has to take care of herself or she’s no good to her family.
If you are always tired, start by looking at your lifestyle. Make sure you are getting the proper amount of rest each night and get your diet and exercise routines in order. Getting yourself healthy will increase your energy level (unless there is some type of depression and that’s a whole other side that I can’t comment on). You can also see your doctor. They can run test to see if your hormones levels are low.
You and your husband should have a date night. Find a babysitter and go out to a dinner and movie. Hold hands and talk about things other than your child. If you can’t or don’t want to get a sitter, have a date night at home. After you put your child to bed, set up a table in your bedroom, have the candles or whatever that you feel is romantic and have dinner "alone." You can also try lingerie and there are always toys.
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By Elisabetta M on Feb 6, 2010 | Reply
Well, getting the child out of the house helps. It’s hard to get sensual when you have to worry about him crying or getting up to look for you.
Set up a date night, go get your nails and hair done before it and buy yourself some new sexy clothes. Then go out for some dinner and maybe a movie or a walk afterwords and then come home and relax together.
Watching porn, experimenting with different positions, using toys, and doing things other then sex [foreplay, oral, anal, fingering] before sex can help make the sex even more exotic and exciting. Get creative.
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By Greeneyed on Feb 6, 2010 | Reply
I’m sad to say we don’t…:(
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By nyclee418 on Feb 6, 2010 | Reply
I have a low low sex drive and had 4 children in 6 years. Just go for quality over quanity. If you want to make a baby plan for making love when you are ovulating.
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low sex drive and realy tired
By James S on Feb 6, 2010 | Reply
I agree with Wybie. My wife and I keep ours alive most of the time by doing it in the morning while the girls are still asleep and we are well rested. Herbs I do not believe will help. Our sex life was also slow after the girls where born but we bought like sex oils to spice things up. Lots of luck.
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Father of Triplet Girls