Comments on: Being Kind in a Relationship Goes a Long Way http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/being-kind-in-a-relationship-goes-a-long-way ..getting back together Tue, 30 Mar 2010 14:21:59 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: James http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/being-kind-in-a-relationship-goes-a-long-way/comment-page-1#comment-926 James Fri, 19 Feb 2010 16:27:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/being-kind-in-a-relationship-goes-a-long-way#comment-926 Just try and be there for her, that's all you can do. He just wants her for sex, so they WILL have sex, if they haven't already. When he dumps her (he WILL dump her), she'll see what a good friend you've been, she'll apologize and your relationship will heal. Just be patient. Help her when he hurts her. She won't see what he is untill it's too late. The hardest part is doing nothing, it'll kill you. Be strong, for her.<br><b>References : </b><br>I've known people like this in the past, I've seen it happen. Just try and be there for her, that’s all you can do. He just wants her for sex, so they WILL have sex, if they haven’t already. When he dumps her (he WILL dump her), she’ll see what a good friend you’ve been, she’ll apologize and your relationship will heal. Just be patient. Help her when he hurts her. She won’t see what he is untill it’s too late. The hardest part is doing nothing, it’ll kill you. Be strong, for her.
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I’ve known people like this in the past, I’ve seen it happen.

]]> By: Soni G http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/being-kind-in-a-relationship-goes-a-long-way/comment-page-1#comment-925 Soni G Fri, 19 Feb 2010 16:25:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/being-kind-in-a-relationship-goes-a-long-way#comment-925 maybe she wants to be with her boyfriend alone don't get involved otherwise you will get the blame just be patient<br><b>References : </b><br> maybe she wants to be with her boyfriend alone don’t get involved otherwise you will get the blame just be patient
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]]> By: Mel C http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/being-kind-in-a-relationship-goes-a-long-way/comment-page-1#comment-924 Mel C Fri, 19 Feb 2010 16:23:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/being-kind-in-a-relationship-goes-a-long-way#comment-924 that is depressing, but maybe hes been forcing things on her. try to find a lone time with her, explain to her that you NEED it. talk to her about the relationship. as for her honesty. and then forget about it the rest of the night and go have fun. you neeeeed it.<br><b>References : </b><br> that is depressing, but maybe hes been forcing things on her. try to find a lone time with her, explain to her that you NEED it. talk to her about the relationship. as for her honesty. and then forget about it the rest of the night and go have fun. you neeeeed it.
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]]> By: dot dot dot http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/being-kind-in-a-relationship-goes-a-long-way/comment-page-1#comment-923 dot dot dot Fri, 19 Feb 2010 11:21:14 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/being-kind-in-a-relationship-goes-a-long-way#comment-923 <b>Can I get your opinion on this relationship? (kind of long question)?</b><br>Well, my best friend started dating this boy a couple months ago (she's 15, so am I, he's 16 or 17). When she started being in a relationship with him, she started becoming secretive and ignoring my calls and now she doesn't talk to me and comes up with all these reasons why I ruined her life (it really makes no sense -- it wasn't an issue before this guy asked her out). I'm not sure exactly HOW long they were dating before the hickeys started, but it was definitely way less than a month. They started saying 'I love you' after only a week. Every time I see her, she has more hickeys. They're always bigger and darker each time. They are together almost every day, unsupervised and downstairs in her room alone. When they are at his house, I'm sure they're alone too. She goes over there all the time, and she stays until really late at night (like 11pm) and same when he goes to her house. When I tried confronting her about it is when the trouble started, and now she won't even speak to me and says we can't be friends. I just want to know your basic opinion of what is going on? It seems like she is just trying to show off. Her AIM profile is plastered with his name and "LOVE!" all over the place, and her away messages always include his name. She cannot be seen ANYWHERE without holding his hand and it's impossible to spot her without a hickey anymore. Usually they go all the way down her shirt and are in the front of her neck -- they don't make any effort to hide them at all [in fact, one day she had one on her shoulder and wore a shoulderless shirt just to show it off]. Thank you for reading thus far lol, I know it's really long and I'm sorry. I'm just worried because she is absolutely not herself and I'm worried she's gonna get into sex at only 15. Has this ever happened to any of you? And what was your experience with it? Do you think she will ever stop being so crazy over this boy/want to be friends with me again? We were the absolute CLOSEST best friends for about four years. Please, I really need input, I've been so depressed over the loss of this friend I've been needing to go to hospitals/therapists/psychiatrists. I miss her :[ Can I get your opinion on this relationship? (kind of long question)?
Well, my best friend started dating this boy a couple months ago (she’s 15, so am I, he’s 16 or 17). When she started being in a relationship with him, she started becoming secretive and ignoring my calls and now she doesn’t talk to me and comes up with all these reasons why I ruined her life (it really makes no sense — it wasn’t an issue before this guy asked her out).

I’m not sure exactly HOW long they were dating before the hickeys started, but it was definitely way less than a month. They started saying ‘I love you’ after only a week. Every time I see her, she has more hickeys. They’re always bigger and darker each time. They are together almost every day, unsupervised and downstairs in her room alone. When they are at his house, I’m sure they’re alone too. She goes over there all the time, and she stays until really late at night (like 11pm) and same when he goes to her house.

When I tried confronting her about it is when the trouble started, and now she won’t even speak to me and says we can’t be friends.

I just want to know your basic opinion of what is going on? It seems like she is just trying to show off. Her AIM profile is plastered with his name and "LOVE!" all over the place, and her away messages always include his name. She cannot be seen ANYWHERE without holding his hand and it’s impossible to spot her without a hickey anymore. Usually they go all the way down her shirt and are in the front of her neck — they don’t make any effort to hide them at all [in fact, one day she had one on her shoulder and wore a shoulderless shirt just to show it off].

Thank you for reading thus far lol, I know it’s really long and I’m sorry. I’m just worried because she is absolutely not herself and I’m worried she’s gonna get into sex at only 15. Has this ever happened to any of you? And what was your experience with it? Do you think she will ever stop being so crazy over this boy/want to be friends with me again? We were the absolute CLOSEST best friends for about four years.

Please, I really need input, I’ve been so depressed over the loss of this friend I’ve been needing to go to hospitals/therapists/psychiatrists. I miss her :[

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