Comments on: Start a Serious Long Term Relationship! http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship ..getting back together Tue, 30 Mar 2010 14:21:59 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: John H http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-1112 John H Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:13:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship#comment-1112 I really think that after being in a long-term relationship with someone, especially one that involved a high level of love for each other, can always be rekindled. The bottom line is you never stop loving that person, especially if things ended on a good note, although one could argue that it didn't because you broke up (but I get what you are saying). As stated, you never stop loving someone with whom you have loved. Love makes a place in your heart and it doesn't just vanish. Even if you don't love someone in terms of wanting to be in a relationship with them anymore, you still technically have love for them, it's just that after awhile, you don't know how to recognize that love anymore. It's like it becomes stored in a deep cavern of your heart and the only way you will ever discover those emotions again is if you run into that person, and/or you find yourselves to be in love again. So to make a long answer short, you definitely could find a long-term relationship with her again, but I don't think there are any 'cards' you can play to MAKE it happen. You can't force something that isn't there, so in the case, you have to let nature run its course and maybe, just maybe, you guys will once again find each other.<br><b>References : </b><br> I really think that after being in a long-term relationship with someone, especially one that involved a high level of love for each other, can always be rekindled. The bottom line is you never stop loving that person, especially if things ended on a good note, although one could argue that it didn’t because you broke up (but I get what you are saying).

As stated, you never stop loving someone with whom you have loved. Love makes a place in your heart and it doesn’t just vanish. Even if you don’t love someone in terms of wanting to be in a relationship with them anymore, you still technically have love for them, it’s just that after awhile, you don’t know how to recognize that love anymore.

It’s like it becomes stored in a deep cavern of your heart and the only way you will ever discover those emotions again is if you run into that person, and/or you find yourselves to be in love again.

So to make a long answer short, you definitely could find a long-term relationship with her again, but I don’t think there are any ‘cards’ you can play to MAKE it happen.

You can’t force something that isn’t there, so in the case, you have to let nature run its course and maybe, just maybe, you guys will once again find each other.
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]]> By: WooGirl Can Blush Sometimes http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-1111 WooGirl Can Blush Sometimes Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:11:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship#comment-1111 Well it sounds like you could make things work again. If you ended on good terms which you did it more likely to work. Most of the time I have to say that once you break it off (because you did for a reason) it's tough to jump right back in. You need to start with telling her how you feel. Letting her know after all this time you still love and care about her... then wait for her response then go from there. <br><b>References : </b><br> Well it sounds like you could make things work again. If you ended on good terms which you did it more likely to work. Most of the time I have to say that once you break it off (because you did for a reason) it’s tough to jump right back in. You need to start with telling her how you feel. Letting her know after all this time you still love and care about her… then wait for her response then go from there.
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]]> By: bellezza1972 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-1110 bellezza1972 Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:09:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship#comment-1110 There are a few things to consider, is she dating someone? Why did you break up to begin with? Are you able to contact her and maybe re-kindle your friendship? I would test the water and see if she is available and interested in getting together "as friends". You always want to start off slow. But, I do believe if there are true feelings, you definitely have a chance!!! Good Luck!<br><b>References : </b><br> There are a few things to consider, is she dating someone? Why did you break up to begin with? Are you able to contact her and maybe re-kindle your friendship? I would test the water and see if she is available and interested in getting together "as friends". You always want to start off slow. But, I do believe if there are true feelings, you definitely have a chance!!!

Good Luck!
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]]> By: Monica J http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-1109 Monica J Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:07:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship#comment-1109 Yes it could happen but remember why you all broke up in the first place and be prepared for the same problems to arise again after all, whats changed since the last time? You play the honesty card ask her how she'd feel about it ask her if she thinks it would be possible to rekindle she might have different memories from the relationship than you so have a chat with her and ask her outright. <br><b>References : </b><br> Yes it could happen but remember why you all broke up in the first place and be prepared for the same problems to arise again after all, whats changed since the last time?
You play the honesty card ask her how she’d feel about it ask her if she thinks it would be possible to rekindle she might have different memories from the relationship than you so have a chat with her and ask her outright.

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]]> By: Keavy http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-1108 Keavy Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:05:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship#comment-1108 You obviously ended the relationship for a reason the first time. Do you think it will be better if you try for a second time? If you don't speak anymore, why would you want to be with this person? Don't you think you would be better off starting something fresh then trying to open old wounds? It sounds to me that if you try to make things work with her again you might get your heart broken. Good luck<br><b>References : </b><br> You obviously ended the relationship for a reason the first time. Do you think it will be better if you try for a second time? If you don’t speak anymore, why would you want to be with this person? Don’t you think you would be better off starting something fresh then trying to open old wounds? It sounds to me that if you try to make things work with her again you might get your heart broken. Good luck
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]]> By: astralpen http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-1107 astralpen Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:03:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship#comment-1107 While it is certainly possible, you should absolutely not focus on this. Move on and find a relationship that works.<br><b>References : </b><br> While it is certainly possible, you should absolutely not focus on this. Move on and find a relationship that works.
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]]> By: Miss Clovis http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-1106 Miss Clovis Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:01:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship#comment-1106 You broke up for a reason... good luck though....<br><b>References : </b><br> You broke up for a reason…
good luck though….
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]]> By: Julie H http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-1105 Julie H Sun, 28 Feb 2010 16:59:59 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship#comment-1105 It isn't like to work out in the long term. The reason you broke up are still there and nothing has really changed. Just move on with your life.<br><b>References : </b><br> It isn’t like to work out in the long term. The reason you broke up are still there and nothing has really changed. Just move on with your life.
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]]> By: joehopps11 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-1104 joehopps11 Sun, 28 Feb 2010 11:57:16 +0000 http://www.texasdivorce411.com/relationship-between/start-a-serious-long-term-relationship#comment-1104 <b>Can a long-term relationship that ended start up again?</b><br>I was wondering if anyone was in a really serious relationship for a long period of time that ended, and amongst all odds it rekindled again one day after a long period of time? Me and my girlfriend after a several years split up awhile ago and i've never fallen out of love with her. We broke up on good terms, yet we don't speak to each other anymore. Has anyone been able to bounce back into a relationship when something like this has happened? Could it happen? What cards do I play? Can a long-term relationship that ended start up again?
I was wondering if anyone was in a really serious relationship for a long period of time that ended, and amongst all odds it rekindled again one day after a long period of time? Me and my girlfriend after a several years split up awhile ago and i’ve never fallen out of love with her. We broke up on good terms, yet we don’t speak to each other anymore. Has anyone been able to bounce back into a relationship when something like this has happened? Could it happen? What cards do I play?

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