The Essence of Human Relationship
November 10th, 2009 | by admin |THE ESSENCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP
` “Human relationships always help us to carry on because they always presuppose further developments, a future and also because we live as if our only task was precisely to have relationships with other people.” Albert Camus. By virtue of being a human being, we have to play various role at different point of time, and this role is popularly called as ‘Human Relationship’. The reason behind to name it as a role is – at different point of time a person has to play a different role with different people, and it is named as different name such as the relationship of – mother and her offspring, father and his offspring, siblings, husband and wife, friends etc. The same person act differently with different person, depends upon the relationship.
Therefore, this World is a huge stage and we all people are the actors playing our roles. We people do not leave our natural life rather always in constrain of relationship and bound to act accordingly. And this constrain is a bond, binds all persons together, give the definite shape and path, real and rational meaning of life otherwise, life would by chaotic and there would not be any order in the society. Hence, the human relationship is a great weapon with us to protect ourselves from all external threats either offend by a human being itself or by any other creatures or natural calamity.
Nevertheless, there is also some sort of relationships among animals but the area and length are very limited. The sense of social feelings is very small, but among human beings, it is eternal and not bound with particular relationship rather universal in nature: or in other words – animals have ‘affectionate relationship‘ and human beings have ‘love relationship‘. The difference between these two words is – affection simply means ‘love for only own persons, group, community etc. but love means affection for all, and not bound with only respective group or community, region or country. Walt Disney’s quote has very beautifully corroborated my this sentence – “There is great comfort and inspiration in the feeling of close human relationships and its bearing on our mutual fortunes – a powerful force, to overcome the “tough breaks” which are certain to come to most of us from time to time.”
By giving this much of explanations, I can say it that the human relationship keeps too much importance in human being’s life. It not only teaches the manners and etiquettes but also civilizes the person adequately in order to protect himself and his society as well. In general, the person who deprived of these relationships is found malnourished. Most of his/her behaviours are not acceptable by society. I mean to say, all sorts of delinquencies and other petty crimes are only due to frustration of relationship. The frustrated relationship restrains total development of respective person; subsequently, he/she is unable to understand his/her role in the society and takes wrong path.
In spite of having this much of importance of human relationship, people some time due to some external pressure behaves very irrationally and ready to breaks it up. The break up of relationship is not good for any body at any cost. Moreover, it is very much important in our life because all emotions, feelings, and consciences are cocooned under the word human relationship. Therefore, in order to armored ourselves, we have to have carry on our relationship properly, because its break up is insalubrious not only for the concerning person but also threat for society. To build a building takes too much time but to abolish it, hardly a matter of an hour, I mean, living in relationship is a bit difficult task and to break it up – is very easy. So, it’s depend upon you people which task adopt.
Moreover, before stopping my pen, I want to quote Hugh Walpole’s words i.e. “The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one’s relationship has a growing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing;it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all things in life.”
Mukesh Kumar
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7 Responses to “The Essence of Human Relationship”
By Drunken Spiritus on Nov 16, 2009 | Reply
What is your opinion on the human need to identify their essence with ideas, material objects, relationships..
etc.
And by doing this creating an identity that is very fragile and prone to bouts of anger and fear, in order to desperately hold onto that which gives him/her some firm ground in a universe of constant movement and uniquness?
By prima_gyal on Nov 16, 2009 | Reply
Humans need ideas and relationships to identify their essence…. material objects, however, are not necessary in the event they are disposable. A "keepsake" like a family heirloom is necessary at times when one needs to gather evidence regarding their essence. It is the cumulation of ideas, worthy material objects, and strong familial relationships that an individual can use to identify the essence of their beliefs and value of self.
One must always keep in mind that their essence and self worth is measured by their efforts toward the goodness and happiness of others… not only themselves. One must belief in the goodness of sharing and assisting others in order to be able to stand up and feel confident when one’s knees may wobble. If you assist others it is likely that they too will hold you up until you can stand.
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By ABBABABE on Nov 16, 2009 | Reply
Because they want to belong to the world, to have and see a mirror of reflection they can recognise, feel apart of, feel that others may understand them, and them they. To feel that their uniqueness is appreciated and understood. So they don’t feel alone in the world.
But that identity and life which society and others make them aspire to, isn’t always what they are, what they want, or best serves their uniqueness.
There is little scope for developing our uniqueness in the world, all that we know is society, all that we’ve learnt to know is society. Boxed into societies framework.
Societies constant movement in the name of technology and progress is but a distraction from the true values of life.
We are told we should constantly change and adapt, only it has to be the way they wish us to adapt. Hardly the basis to develop one’s singular uniqueness. Singular being the word society would rather avoid to hem us all into the mainstream of their desires for their society.
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By SEMTEX on Nov 16, 2009 | Reply
I hold the opinion that the premise upon which you base your solicitation should not be presumed cast in concrete.
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By s7e7v7e7n7 on Nov 16, 2009 | Reply
There must be a reason for this clinging sensation. the body was fed from the milk of mother but the mind is fed much differently.
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By Special EPhex on Nov 16, 2009 | Reply
It called the human ego. It is explained in great detail by Dr. David R. Hawkins in his book called the "Eye of the I" and in his other books as well. It is not created but inherent in the acceptance of the human mind or frontal cortex.
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By Yaoi Shonen-ai on Nov 16, 2009 | Reply
Essences are always identified by ideas. Essences are concepts. [See Stoicism; Wm. of Occam; Rand; and perhaps Averroes and others.]
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